I missed the absurdly exciting end of the cricket World Cup Final - because I had to lead an evening Communion service at St. Mary's! This may well constitute the finest example of dedication to duty in the recent history of the Church of England. But I'm being very gracious about it all, I think - partly because England won, and partly because (as I keep telling everyone) in a couple of weeks I'm off to watch the first day of the Ashes series at Edgbaston.

So, in a way, I can afford to be gracious. It's not too hard to be gracious from a position of strength; but real graciousness is the ability to respond positively, without rancour, to defeat or failure. Real graciousness is what New Zealand's captain, Kane Williamson, showed in his response to his team's undeserved defeat - the second time, in recent months, that a Kiwi has shown the world something important about leadership. 

"Ungracious" is a word none of us would like to be tagged with. The sense that our political leaders are graceless, as they insist they are right and refuse to acknowledge the good in their opponents, has contributed to the erosion of trust in them. Can we, as a church, contribute to a revival of graciousness - especially when things aren't going our way?